Making a statement

[blinker]

Kelly's not coming to New York with me in June for my little brother's high school graduation. Last night, I asked my mother if it would be okay for her to come with me. Her response?

"I don't think it's an appropriate time to make a statement."

After much clarification and "I'm just concerned for the kids", it became apparent that that meant "no." I suppose I should cut her some slack, because she's only had 7 YEARS to get used to the possibility that I might someday wind up in a committed relationship with another woman.

I really should have followed through on the plan to have her trapped in an elevator with a dozen PFLAG members.

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[queue.livejournal.com]

Knowing absolutely nothing about the situation, I'll ask a stupid question:

Why did you ask your mother in advance if it was okay?

[bitty.livejournal.com]

'cause like all these kids aren't gonna' meet any gay people when they get to college.

This is not what you want to hear

[nmc.livejournal.com]

Argh. "Make a statement" might as well be "flaunt your sexuality." They mean the same thing.

I really should have followed through on the plan to have her trapped in an elevator with a dozen PFLAG members.

Not a bad idea. Maybe you should sign her up for a mailing list or two.

[surrealestate.livejournal.com]

Oy, that really sucks. Yeah, of course, the only reason you like having your SO with you is to make a statement. Does she think this is just a phase?

Has your mom met Kelly before? Have y'all spent some time together?

[call-me-al.livejournal.com]

so what would happen if you just brought her anyway?